In the Flesh is a monthly reading series held the third Thursday of every month at the appropriately named Happy Ending Lounge, and features the city's best erotic writers sharing stories to get you hot and bothered, hosted and curated by erotic writer/editor Rachel Kramer Bussel (Best Sex Writing series, Do Not Disturb, Spanked, Dirty Girls, etc.). From erotic poetry to down and dirty smut, these authors get naked on the page and will make you lust after them and their words. Themed nights have included True Sex Confessions, Revenge of the Sex Columnists, GLBT Night, and Comedy Sex. Readers have included Laura Antoniou, Mo Beasley, Susie Bright, Lily Burana, Jessica Cutler, Stephen Elliott, Martha Garvey, Gael Greene, Andy Horwitz, Debra Hyde, Maxim Jakubowski, Josh Kilmer-Purcell, Tsaurah Litzky, Suzanne Portnoy, Sofia Quintero, M.J. Rose, Danyel Smith, Grant Stoddard, Cecilia Tan, Carol Taylor, Veronica Vera, Zane and others. In The Flesh debuted in October 2005. Contact rachelkramerbussel at gmail.com for bookings, press, or questions. Click here In The Flesh: Los Angeles. “…writer and host Rachel Kramer Bussel welcomes eroticism of all stripes, spots and textures to the Happy Ending lounge on the Lower East Side.,” New York Times UrbanEye newsletter, August 15, 2007 email rachelkramerbussel at gmail.com for booking or other information or interview requests

Tuesday, August 22, 2006

September 20th = "Revenge of the Sex Columnists"

I finalized the lineup for the most crowded, media-centric In The Flesh yet. I read some hate mail when I was on The Rejection Show and will probably be doing so again and as for everyone else, come and see!

IN THE FLESH EROTIC READING SERIES
REVENGE OF THE SEX COLUMNISTS!
WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 20 at 8 PM
AT HAPPY ENDING LOUNGE, 302 BROOME STREET, NYC
(B/D to Grand, J/M/Z to Bowery, F to Delancey, http://www.happyendinglounge.com)
Admission: Free
Happy Ending Lounge: 212-334-9676
http://inthefleshreadingseries.blogspot.com


Hear your favorite sex columnists tell all—from horror stories to hate mail to come-ons and sexcapades! With Julia Allison (“The Dating Life,” AM NY), Nicole Beland (“Ask the Girl Next Door,” Men’s Health), Erin Bradley (“Miss Information,” Nerve.com), Ellen Friedrichs (Teenwire.com), Greg Gilderman (“The Dating Life,” Metro), Laura Leu (“Sex Diary,” Penthouse), Stephanie Sellars (“Lust Life,” New York Press), and Jamye Waxman (“Sex Ed,” Playgirl), and your host, Rachel Kramer Bussel (“Lusty Lady,” The Village Voice). Books and magazines, as well as candy and mini cupcakes, will be given away.

In the Flesh is a monthly reading series hosted at the appropriately named Happy Ending Lounge, and features the city's best erotic writers sharing stories to get you hot and bothered, hosted and curated by Village Voice sex columnist and acclaimed erotic writer and editor Rachel Kramer Bussel. From erotic poetry to down and dirty smut, these authors get naked on the page and will make you lust after them and their words. Future themed nights include Revenge of the Sex Columnists (September), comic sex (November) and erotic memoirs. Since its debut in October 2005, In the Flesh has featured such authors as Lily Burana, Jessica Cutler, Polly Frost, Andy Horwtiz, Maxim Jakubowski, Emily Scarlet Kramer of CAKE, Edith Layton, M.J. Rose, Lauren Sanders, Danyel Smith, Cecilia Tan, Carol Taylor, and many others. The series has gotten press attention from Escape (Hong Kong), The L Magazine, New York, Gothamist, Nerve.com and Wonkette. This series is not Amanda Stern’s Happy Ending Reading Series.

Rachel Kramer Bussel is a New York City-based author and editor. She is Senior Editor at Penthouse Variations, writes the Lusty Lady column for The Village Voice, and conducts interviews for Gothamist.com and Mediabistro.com. Her erotic stories have appeared in over 60 anthologies, including Best American Erotica 2004 and 2006, and she’s edited her own collections, including Naughty Spanking Stories from A to Z 1 and 2, Up All Night, First-Timers, Glamour Girls, Ultimate Undies, Sexiest Soles, Secret Slaves: Erotic Stories of Bondage, and Caught Looking: Erotic Tales of Voyeurs and Exhibitionists. Rachel has also written for AVN, Bust, Metro, New York Post, Punk Planet, Time Out New York and Velvetpark.
www.rachelkramerbussel.com

Julia Allison is a writer and columnist, best known for her weekly column, “The Dating Life,” in AM New York, a daily Manhattan newspaper that reaches more than 320,000 readers. She got her start as a now clichéd college sex columnist at Georgetown University, but since then she has written for Cosmopolitan, New York, COED, Teen Vogue, Seventeen, Capitol File and Men’s Health, among others. In addition to a regrettable stint on Elimidate, America’s #1 cheesiest dating show, Julia has been featured in The Washington Post, Chicago Tribune, Fox, CNBC, CBS and NPR. She appears regularly on Fox News as an entertainment pundit.
www.juliaallison.com

Nicole Beland, a former Cosmo senior editor, has been the Men's Health Girl Next Door for the past six years and also writes the He Says/She Says sex and relationship column in Women's Health. She's the author of Girl Seeks Bliss: Zen and the Art of Modern Life Maintenance and Sex: The Whole Picture.
www.nicolebeland.com

Erin Bradley is writer living in New York City. Erin is the author of Miss Information, a weekly sex and dating advice column, and Girlgonemad, an online dating blog, both appearing on Nerve.com. Originally from the Midwest, Erin is a graduate of Michigan State University where she earned a degree in Human Resources (don’t worry, she doesn’t know what that means either). When she’s not writing freelance for various entertainment and tech publications, Erin can be found working on her screenplay and watching television documentaries with Creature, her morbidly obese cat.

Ellen Friedrichs is a Brooklyn based sexuality educator. She holds an MA in health and human sexuality education and started her career in sexuality at Manhattan's Museum of Sex. From there she became the behind the scenes expert for Planned Parenthood's teenwire.com website answering hundreds of thousands of sex questions from information starved teens. Currently, she teaches sex education to teens in the South Bronx and human sexuality to biology students at Rutgers University. She also runs sexuality workshops and writes about the subject when she has a chance. These days she also hangs out with her baby. More information about Ellen can be found at her website: www.sexEdvice.com.

Greg Gilderman’s column reaches 800,000 readers in Metro newspapers of Boston, New York, and Philadelphia. He's a contributing writer at Cosmopolitan, and an on-camera advisor for Match.com's new video website. For five years he was the host of the popular late-night cable access talk show "Mr. Greg Live," and his first book, She's the One: What Makes a Woman a Keeper and Other Mysteries of the Male Mind Revealed, will be published by Penguin/Perigee in January 2007.

Laura Leu writes a monthly column for Penthouse called "Sex Diary." She has also written for Maxim, Stuff, Shock, Sync, Riot, Match.com and contributed to the book Naked Ambition: Women Pornographers and How They Are Changing The Sex Industry. As a sex and relationships expert, she has made several TV appearances and does a weekly sex segment on Maxim Sirius Radio. She recently launched a line of underwear, which can be found at www.UnderDares.com.

Stephanie Sellars is a writer, filmmaker, and performer. Her provocative column "Lust Life" appears weekly in New York Press. She also writes features and reviews. Her first film "Twenty Minutes of Immortality" (in which she can be seen in the buff) has been airing regularly on IFC for the past three years. She has sung about town in cabarets and jazz clubs. She has written several screenplays and an autobiographical novel. As Stephanie enjoys channeling dead writers, she co-produces and hosts a reading series of Dorothy Parker material.
www.stephaniesellars.com

Jamye Waxman has been called “the nexxxt generation of sex educator” (Wired.com). With a Masters in sexuality education from Widener University in Pennsylvania. She currently writes three sex columns: "Sex Ed" for Playgirl and two dating and relationship columns for Steppin' Out and The Philly Edge. She is also the co-writer and producer of the latest Candida Royalle feature, "Under the Covers," (Femme Productions) and is currently working on her first book, entitled Women loving Women (Quiver Press, Spring 2007). Jamye also teaches classes on all things sex both privately and for the popular website/social calendar Moxieinthecity.net. Waxman was a producer of the popular Metro TV show Naked New York. She is president of the national organization, Feminists for Free Expression.
www.jamyewaxman.com

Monday, August 21, 2006

Erotic memoirists needed for January's In The Flesh

January's going to be erotic memoir night, and I've already got 4 fabulous memoirists lined up (Rachel Sarah, Grant Stoddard, Virginia Vitzthum, and Lauren Wissot), but I'm looking for 1 or 2 more, so if you have any suggestions, please post in the comments or email me at rachelkb at gmail.com - could be a recent memoir or slightly older, as long it's somehow related to sex and/or dating. Think Toni Bentley's The Surrender, Lily Burana's Strip City, Helen Boyd's My Husband Betty - that sort of book.

Thursday, August 17, 2006

Metro In The Flesh blurb


Metro In The Flesh blurb
Originally uploaded by rkb1.

Marie Lyn Bernard Does New York


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Originally uploaded by brianvan.
And by "does," I mean totally WOWS the entire packed crowd at In The Flesh last night with her absolutely brilliant and smoking hot story about sex with various cities in our lovely country. I want to hear that story again and again! I want to publish it, and hopefully someday I will. It was amazing. And her friend (sorry, I forget her name) Haviland Stillwell, was fabulous too. I am in awe. To Marie, aka This Girl Called Automatic Win, (who wrote her story on Monday!), you should be super proud of yourself. No wonder you're gonna be in Best American Erotica 2007. To everyone else: read all of her work that you can get your hands on!

Every reader last night really brought it, and the crowd could tell. THANK YOU to everyone who read and everyone who showed up, including the 2nd shift crew of my fabulous, talented friends who arrived pretty much at the end of the night. More on the reading later, but for now, check out Brian Van's fabulous photos.

Also, working on the killer lineup for September 20th's Revenge of the Sex Columnists night. You don't want to miss Julia Allison (“The Dating Life,” AM NY), Nicole Beland (“Ask the Girl Next Door,” Men’s Health), Erin Bradley (“Miss Information,” Nerve.com), Ellen Friedrichs (Teenwire.com), Greg Gilderman (“The Dating Life,” Metro), Laura Leu (“Sex Diary,” Penthouse), and Jamye Waxman (“Sex Ed,” Playgirl), and me ("Lusty Lady," The Village Voice).

Wednesday, August 16, 2006

In The Flesh media mash note

Tonight! In The Flesh! Happy Ending! 8:00!

Major thanks to everyone who listed the reading, including:

Nerve's Scanner blog

The New Yorker

Time Out New York (with a star!)

Metro

AM-NY

Cupcakes for all of you! Actually, cupcakes for anyone who shows up early, made by my fellow cupcake blogger Allison - early birds get seats and cupcakes at In The Flesh, but everyone gets candy and HOT stories!

Thursday, August 10, 2006

October 18th's lovely and literary lineup

IN THE FLESH EROTIC READING SERIES
WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 18 at 8 PM
AT HAPPY ENDING LOUNGE, 302 BROOME STREET, NYC
(B/D to Grand, J/M/Z to Bowery, F to Delancey, http://www.happyendinglounge.com)
Admission: Free
Happy Ending Lounge: 212-334-9676
http://inthefleshreadingseries.blogspot.com

In The Flesh gets literary in October with racy words from short story writer Jami Attenberg (Instant Love), spoken word impresario Mo Beasley and members of his dirty-word powerhouse UrbanErotika, playright Christen Clifford (Baby Love, 17 Guys I Fucked), novelist Marcy Dermansky (Twins), San Francisco-based author Stephen Elliott (My Girlfriend Comes to the City and Beats Me Up, Happy Baby), and erotica writer P.F. Kozak (Passions, Sins and Secrets), along with host Rachel Kramer Bussel (Caught Looking: Erotic Tales of Voyeurs and Exhibitionists; Naughty Spanking Stories from A to Z 1 and 2). Copies of the authors' books will be given away, and free candy and mini cupcakes will be served.

In the Flesh is a monthly reading series hosted at the appropriately named Happy Ending Lounge, and features the city's best erotic writers sharing stories to get you hot and bothered, hosted and curated by Village Voice sex columnist and acclaimed erotic writer and editor Rachel Kramer Bussel. From erotic poetry to down and dirty smut, these authors get naked on the page and will make you lust after them and their words. Future themed nights include Revenge of the Sex Columnists (September), comic sex (November) and erotic memoirs. Since its debut in October 2005, In the Flesh has featured such authors as Andy Horwitz, Jessica Cutler, Polly Frost, Maxim Jakubowski, Emily Scarlet Kramer of CAKE, Edith Layton, M.J. Rose, Lauren Sanders, Danyel Smith, Cecilia Tan, Carol Taylor, and many others. The series has gotten press attention from Escape (Hong Kong), The L Magazine, New York Magazine, Gothamist, Nerve.com and Wonkette.

Jami Attenberg has written about sex, technology, design, graphic novels, books, television, and urban life for Salon, Print, Nylon, the San Francisco Chronicle, and others. Her fiction has been published by Pindeldyboz, Nerve, Spork, and Bullfight Review. Her debut collection of stories, Instant Love, was published by Crown/Shaye Areheart Books in June 2006. A novel, The Kept Man, will be published by Riverhead Books in 2007.
www.jamiattenberg.com

Mo Beasley is a performance poet and Producing Director of UrbanErotika. Affectionately known as The Head Coach of Erotica, founded and hosts New York' s longest running monthly erotic showcase: UrbanErotika. Since 2001, UE has featured the passions of all cultures and lifestyles united to express true eros through spoken word, poetry, music, & dance.
www.thelovestorm.com

Rachel Kramer Bussel is a New York City-based author and editor. She is Senior Editor at Penthouse Variations and a Contributing Editor and columnist for Penthouse, writes the Lusty Lady column for The Village Voice, and conducts interviews for Gothamist.com and Mediabistro.com. Her erotic stories have appeared in over 60 anthologies, including Best American Erotica 2004 and 2006, and she's edited her own collections, including Naughty Spanking Stories from A to Z 1 and 2, Up All Night, First-Timers, Glamour Girls, and the forthcoming Ultimate Undies, Sexiest Soles, Secret Slaves, and Caught Looking: Erotic Tales of Voyeurs and Exhibitionists. Rachel has also written for AVN, Bust, Metro, New York Post, Punk Planet, Time Out New York and Velvetpark.
www.rachelkramerbussel.com

Christen Clifford's most recent solo show, BabyLove, had its world premiere at the Mesto Zensk Festival in Ljubljana, Slovenia in 2005. It has also been produced in New York at Center Stage New York as part of Terra Nova Collective's 3rd Solo Arts Festival, at The Hudson Guild Theatre, and at 2006 San Francisco Fringe Festival and will be seen in late October 2006 in Toronto. Actor: most recently the title role in The Woman Before, directed by Daniel Fish in New York. Clifford is an MFA Candidate in Creative Non-Fiction at The New School.
www.christenclifford.com

Marcy Dermansky's first novel Twins, a 2005 New York Times Editor's Choice pick, will be released in paperback this October from HarperCollins. A MacDowell Fellow, Marcy is the winner of the 2002 Smallmouth Press Andre Dubus Novella Award and the 1999 Story Magazine Carson McCullers short story prize. Her short stories have appeared in numerous literary journals, including McSweeneys, The Alaska Quarterly Review, and The Indiana Review. She reviews independent and foreign film for about About.com. Marcy is not an identical twin.
www.marcydermansky.com

Stephen Elliott is the author of six books including Happy Baby and My Girlfriend Comes To The City And Beats Me Up. His writing has also appeared in The New York Times, Esquire, The Village Voice, Best American Erotica, Best Sex Writing, Best Non-Required Reading, among others.
www.stephenelliott.com

P. F. Kozak has had a unique perspective on sexuality since she discovered playing doctor, long before puberty. Once her hormones blended with her imagination, exotic erotic fantasies were born, and stories filled her head. With the publication of her first two books, Passion and Sins and Secrets, being a writer is no longer a castle in the sky.
www.pfkozak.com

Friday, August 04, 2006

August 16th's awesome lineup

A little reminder for your calendars...one of the ones I'm the most proud of because my dear friend who I rarely get to see, Shari Goldhagen, is reading from her excellent first novel Family and Other Accidents and Lily Burana is doing her first public reading of a sex scene! How historic.

IN THE FLESH EROTIC READING SERIES
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 16 at 8 PM
AT HAPPY ENDING LOUNGE, 302 BROOME STREET, NYC
(B/D to Grand, J/M/Z to Bowery, F to Delancey, http://www.happyendinglounge.com)
Admission: Free
Happy Ending Lounge: 212-334-9676
http://inthefleshreadingseries.blogspot.com

Join an eclectic mix of New York's finest writers as they entertain and arouse you. Readers include Marie Lyn Bernard (Best American Erotica 2007, Erotic Interludes 2), Lily Burana (Try, Strip City), Shari Goldhagen (Family and Other Accidents), Riain Grey (Erotic Authors Association, Scarlet Letters), Shane Luitjens (Bullets and Butterflies, Revolutionary Voices), Lisa Montanarelli (Whipped!, Strange But True), Caridad Piñeiro (Sex and the South Beach Chicas, The Calling Vampire series), and host Rachel Kramer Bussel. Copies of the authors' books will be given away, along with free candy and mini cupcakes.

In the Flesh is a monthly reading series hosted at the appropriately named Happy Ending Lounge, and features the city's best erotic writers sharing stories to get you hot and bothered, hosted and curated by Village Voice sex columnist and acclaimed erotic writer and editor Rachel Kramer Bussel. From erotic poetry to down and dirty smut, these authors get naked on the page and will make you lust after them and their words. Future themed nights include Revenge of the Sex Columnists (September), comic sex (November) and erotic memoirs. Since its debut in October 2005, In the Flesh has featured such authors as Andy Horwitz, Jessica Cutler, Polly Frost, Maxim Jakubowski, Emily Scarlet Kramer of CAKE, Edith Layton, M.J. Rose, Lauren Sanders, Danyel Smith, Cecilia Tan, Carol Taylor, and many others. The series has gotten press attention from Escape (Hong Kong), The L Magazine, New York Magazine, Philadelphia City Paper, Gothamist, Nerve.com and Wonkette.

Rachel Kramer Bussel is a New York City-based author and editor. She is Senior Editor at Penthouse Variations and a Contributing Editor and columnist for Penthouse, writes the Lusty Lady column for The Village Voice, and conducts interviews for Gothamist.com and Mediabistro.com. Her erotic stories have appeared in over 60 anthologies, including Best American Erotica 2004 and 2006, and she's edited her own collections, including Naughty Spanking Stories from A to Z 1 and 2, Up All Night, First-Timers, Glamour Girls, Ultimate Undies, Sexiest Soles, Secret Slaves: Erotic Stories of Bondage, and the forthcoming Caught Looking: Erotic Tales of Voyeurs and Exhibitionists, She's on Top: Erotic Stories of Female Dominance and Male Submission, He's on Top: Erotic Stories of Male Dominance and Female Submission, Sex and Candy: Sugar Erotica, and Second Skins. Rachel has also written for Alternative Press, AVN, Bust, Metro, New York Post, Punk Planet, Time Out New York and Velvetpark.
www.rachelkramerbussel.com

Marie Lyn Bernard is a half-Jewish, half-Midwestern Farmer's-Daughter freelance aspirant. Her work has appeared in Best Women's Erotica 2005, Best American Erotica 2007, The Mammoth Book of Best New Erotica V.5, the Lambda Literary Award-nominated Erotic Interludes 2: Stolen Moments, nerve.com, CleanSheets, Fresh Off the Vine, Conversely, Desdmona.com, The Sarah Lawrence Review and ElitesTV.com. She lives in Brooklyn, works at the Donald Maass Literary Agency, believes in St. Elmo's fire, is usually a Kinsey 3, and occasionally fools around with a website called www.marielynbernard.com.

Lily Burana is the author of the unapologetically beachy "beach book" Try—a tawdry rodeo romance. She is also author of the memoir Strip City: A Stripper's Farewell Journey Across America. Her participation in In The Flesh marks her very first time reading a sex scene in public. A literary loss of virginity, if that's not too gross. Okay, it IS gross. But that's what makes it fun. She hopes you'll be there for her first time.
www.lilyburana.com

Shari Goldhagen's critically acclaimed first novel, Family and Other Accidents, was released from Doubleday/Broadway this spring. A fellow at both Yaddo and MacDowell, Shari holds an MFA from Ohio State and journalism degree from Northwestern. While working on the book, Shari stalked celebrities for The National Enquirer, Life & Style, and Celebrity Living Weekly.
www.sharigoldhagen.com

Riain Grey is the pen name of a writer, editor, bookseller, exhibitionist and tight-rope walker. Her work has appeared in The Mammoth Book of Best New Erotica Volumes 4 and 5, Clean Sheets, Scarlet Letters, the Erotic Authors Association, and Synapse. She lives in New York City with her husband, two cats and a frightening assortment of books.
www.riaingrey.com

A non-native New Yorker, Shane Luitjens is a 31 year-old full-time Creative Director and activist. His work has appeared in various places throughout the country, including Revolutionary Voices (Alyson Press), suspect thoughts: a journal of subversive writing, Lodestar Quarterly and this year's Lambda Literary Award finalist Bullets and Butterflies.
www.lethalwhitetrash.com

Lisa Montanarelli's erotic fiction has appeared in Best American Erotica 2004, Best American Erotica 2005, Whipped! and many other anthologies. She has coauthored two humor books, Strange But True: San Francisco and Strange But True: Chicago (both Globe Pequot 2005), and a health book, The First Year -- Hepatitis C (Marlowe 2002).
www.lisamontanarelli.com

Caridad Piñeiro attended Villanova University on a Presidential Scholarship and earned her Juris Doctor from St. John's University. Sex and the South Beach Chicas, coming in September 2006 from Downtown Press, is Caridad's twelfth published novel. Also look for Death Calls and two other books in The Calling Vampire series beginning in December 2006. Caridad is slated to have another four releases from Downtown Press and Harlequin in 2007.
www.caridad.com

Wednesday, August 02, 2006

Philadelphia City Paper plug and International Orgasm Day!

It's media day in RKB land, apparently, and since I'm somewhat of a complete and total media whore, I love it. Some cupcakes, some smut, some randomness, more info on that coming soon I hope. In Philadelphia City Paper, Ashlea Halpern gives a rundown of sexy events she thinks Philadelphia should steal from other cities and In The Flesh is one of them! I also learned that August 8th is International Orgasm Day (who knew?).

Also in NYC: "Lusty Lady" Rachel Kramer Bussel's monthly In the Flesh Erotic Reading Series, which lures its audience with the promise of free cupcakes and tantalizing wordage. Comedians, sex columnists, lesbian erotica editors, adult stars and more confess their raunchiest, raciest, most rocking-est bedroom escapades — sometimes in iambic pentameter, sometimes freestyle.